Maybe someone knows the answer to this. I was invited to a 50th wedding anniversary, not at an elaborate place, just a restaurant. A gift of money was given, quite a lot of money. I don’t recall getting a thank you note. Do people not do this anymore? I’m just curious to know.

No Thanks

I agree. I think a thank you note would be required here. But — and I don’t mean to be crass — but maybe the happy couple has since left the mortal coil? — Ed. Note